Constellation Days
What’s moving beneath the surface?
A constellation day offers a powerful space to explore what lives under the surface. We work in a small group setting, where you can participate as a representative or bring your own personal question into a full constellation. Whatever arises during the process is approached with care, attention, and deep respect. A constellation day can be transformational on its own, but it often becomes even more meaningful when it follows an individual session or complements an ongoing coaching journey. The insights from earlier sessions can then literally take shape in the field—deepening and accelerating the movement.
The next constellation day in English in Amsterdam South is not scheduled yet. Please use the Sign Up button to let us know you’re interested. We look forward to welcoming you.
How to join
If you’d like to participate in a constellation day, the regular representative fee is €50, including VAT. This includes drinks and snacks. If you choose to bring your own constellation, the regular fee is €150, including VAT. You’ll then be one of a maximum of three participants who will explore their own question in the constellation that day.
Practical Information
The constellation days are guided by systemic trauma facilitator Kim van Zadelhoff and her trained systemic assistant. They takes place at Heart House Hercules in Amsterdam South. There will be around 7 participants, of whom a maximum of 3 will receive a personal constellation. The remaining participants are present as representatives.
Doors open at 9:00 AM and the session begins at 9:30 AM. We close the day around 1:30 PM. After registering, you’ll receive a confirmation email with all practical details. Payment is made in advance via a secure payment link.
Representative or Question-Holder?
As a representative, you’ll be invited to take a temporary place in someone’s system, perhaps as a parent, child, sibling, or even something more abstract like a desire, a block, or a symptom. You don’t need to “do” anything or have experience, your body and intuition do the work. What’s special is that you’re rarely chosen by coincidence. The role often resonates with something in your own system. By fully stepping into that role, you not only support someone else’s constellation, you also clear something within yourself. That’s why participating as a representative is not only insightful but also healing. Every role you take brings you closer to your own place.
If you’re the question-holder, the facilitator will work with you to explore the invisible field that’s unconsciously shaping your life. Together, we bring to light the underlying dynamics that may cause you to feel stuck, overly responsible, or unable to fully take your place in work or relationships. Think of recurring patterns like: Holding yourself back just when things start to go well, taking care of everyone but yourself, or shrinking in the presence of authority. In the constellation, these patterns become visible, so that movement can begin.